32nd Sunday of ordinary time
This weekend we have our annual day of remembrance when we remember all those who died in the first and second world wars. Remembrance Sunday reminds us of the need to pray without ceasing for peace in the world especially these days with the ongoing wars in the Holy Land and Ukraine. The theme of our readings this weekend is not marriage though the Gospel story is about the bridegroom and his attendants. Instead the readings point us towards something very different that is the gift of Wisdom. The first reading taken from the Book of Wisdom cites watchfulness as the key to a faithful understanding of wisdom according to St. Bernard wisdom lights up the mind and instils an attraction to the divine. The author of the Book of Wisdom reminds us that we have one unfailing presence to guide us through our lives that is Wisdom. We are told Watch for her early and you will have no trouble; you will find her sitting at your gates. She is “resplendent and unfading;” always there for those who seek her out. The Gospel story for this Sunday is about an oil crisis in the Middle East it tells us about the five bridesmaids who didn’t buy extra lamp oil they were foolish because they weren’t prepared for the late arrival of the bridegroom.
On the other hand the story flags up the wisdom of the five wise bridesmaids who were prepared for the late arrival of the bridegroom as they went out and bought more oil for their lamps. Their wisdom wasn’t extraordinary, but eminently practical. It is true that it is near impossible, to estimate the quantity of oil necessary to keep a lamp lit as we await the bridegroom for an unknown length of time! In this story the Lamp is our faith and how we live our faith is the oil. This Gospel calls us to seize the moment and direct our lives guided by the wisdom that God gives us through the life and teachings of Jesus. What we experience is the routine of work, school, and various activities, rushed family meals, television, shopping, visiting elderly parents, friends and family, church services, etc. It can feel so predictable. But the routine of our daily lives can also be shattered by the unexpected and sudden demands life puts on us and our loved ones. Will we be ready to respond? It depends on how well we have tended to our “oil” supply. If we have squandered it by neglect, or missed opportunities to get more oil for our lamps then when we look for backup in a moment of crisis, like the bridesmaids we may be left with the sound of the slamming door being locked as the bridegroom tells us I don’t know who you are you are too late.
Only those who were ready went in with the bridegroom to the wedding. When God calls us, will we be ready? The disciple needs to remain alert, vigilant and prepared for the ‘day of salvation’ by continually growing in a faithful and loving relationship with God. This loving relationship with God bears fruit in good works for neighbours. That is what it means to be hearers of the Word of god who take what they hear to heart. The Bridegroom comes when we least expect his presence. The encounters we have with the Lord are frequent. But it takes real wisdom – our flasks of wisdom filled – to see the Lord. We need light to see and the flasks that fill our lamps provide that for us. It is a light that frees us of the need to prove ourselves. What are the results when we seek and discover Wisdom bit by bit in a lifetime, the result is we become whole and at peace. Wisdom will find you if you are not too busy with something else. Wisdom will find you if you allow your mind to be open to the newness she might suggest you try. Wisdom and what she offers is one wonderful way God revives, saturates, and renews our parched, lifeless, and whirlwind lives with the abundance of blessings. So let us rejoice in the gift and blessing that wisdom is for us.









